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Notes from the chair.

Honest, plain-language writing about sex therapy, mental health, and the practice of being a person in relationships.

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Overcoming performance anxiety in the bedroom: a practical guide

Performance anxiety is a self-fulfilling prophecy. The way out is not 'try harder' — it's understanding the loop and stepping out of it.

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